What a perfect afternoon. I had to leave the office yesterday around 11:30 am and I have to be honest I was grumbling the whole way, I am too busy, I have so much to get done, I really need some solid hours at my desk. And as usual, I left anyway to go to the annual Norma F. Pfriem Breast Care Center luncheon. This year the keynote speaker was going to be Vanessa Williams, I had admired some of her work, so I thought the afternoon most likely would turn out alright. The other reason I had to go was one of my best friends is the director of the center and I knew she had put in a gazillion hours to make this afternoon special. So up I got, in my car and to the event I went (along with a team of us from Bigelow).
Well when I got there, I saw so many wonderful people that I knew in the community. And as I should have expected, each person was nicer than the next-big hugs, lots of smiles and kisses…Okay I needed to go. Then we sat down, and my dear friend, Donna Twist the director, got up and gave away two Rose of Hope awards to some pretty special ladies that have worked tirelessly for the center. The awards were extremely well deserved and the words they each shared when they received their plaque were so beautifully touching. Yeah, this is good. Then up to the podium came a young woman named Natasha Jones. She is a breast care survivor (still in treatment), single mother of four, 35 years old, with no safety net in the world to help her with her children if anything was ever to happen to her. Her words stopped me cold….it wasn’t a disease that she would ever get, it wasn’t something she ever even thought twice about and all of a sudden she is diagnosed with stage 2 cancer and is fighting for her life. She spoke for about 20 minutes and you could hear a pin drop in the audience of almost 500 people. Each statement she made was more riveting than the last about her journey, her outstanding care she received at the center and her unwavering will to survive. I could not stop the tears streaming down my face. When she finished I could not jump to my feet fast enough. 500 of us were giving her the ovation of her life. Yes, this is a wonderful cause. Then finally Vanessa was at the microphone. Of course she was as beautiful as ever but it was what she said that was really what made her shine in my eyes. First she acknowledged Natasha and her fight against breast cancer with such a caring and compassionate tone. I quickly realized this was not a woman who was going to just get up and just give her prepared speech and move on. She was sincere, passionate about this disease that stole her 42 year cousin (who was like a sister to her) and honest. She shared stories of her life, her love of her children, how the loss of her cousin affected her and how invaluable a center like the Norma Pfriem truly is to our community. It wasn’t a canned speech, it was written with true purpose and heart. Once again the tears started. When she was done, all 500 of us were back on our feet applauding this truly beautiful speech that we watched unfold.
Now I am back in my office, looking at all the numbers, preparing for upcoming meetings and handling phone calls. I am still too busy, I still have too much to get done, and I still need more hours than I have in a day at my desk, but it doesn’t matter. Thank you Donna, thank you Vanessa and thank you Natasha….you put me back in balance, you made my day and I realize how lucky I am that I was even given the chance to attend this wonderful lunch. It was the perfect afternoon….
Cindi Bigelow